Guys, it's time to unplug and take the "RED PILL"

[Grimlock]

I just got a PM asking if this was a BOT post, lol, no it wasn't...  :lol:

Guys, I don't know if any of you have heard of "red pill" theory regarding intersexual relationships but if you haven't then it's time to open up your eyes to reality.  I just finished listening to a book in audio format titled "The Rational Male" and I can't recommend this book enough.  If you're like most guys and can't quite figure woman out or why you have no luck with them then you have to read this book (or get it in audio format).  This book applies to all types of relationships with woman but specifically romantic relationships, girlfriends, wives and such.  For you guys in your 20s that haven't been married yet this is particularly relevant although it's very relevant to men of all ages that deal with women in relationships.

This book is raw, non-PC, and to the point.

"The Rational Male"
By: Rollo Tomassi

https://www.audible.com/pd/Self-Development/The-Rational-Male-Audiobook/B01E61CYCA?mkwid=DSATitle_dc&pcrid=239352017471&pmt=b&pkw=&source_code=GO1GB907OSH060513&cvosrc=ppc%20dynamic%20search.google.97175169&cvo_crid=239352017471&cvo_pid=5075902449&gclid=Cj0KCQjw1-fVBRC3ARIsAIifYOPO_MNms8p3LTvUwYj_-P_qFCI_EP-9hMYeObcz8Vy-jlo_PPIEt7waAq-WEALw_wcB

I honestly wish someone would have shared this with me, that's why I'm putting it out there for you guys.

EDIT: I'm posting this for you guys in hopes that you can avoid getting completely f**ked over by women like I have in the past and recently.  If you understand them better (in blunt guy terms) then you'll have much better success.  Make no mistake, women can make your life so much more fulfilling but on the other side they can ruthlessly destroy your life regardless of what level of commitment and investment you've made in them.

[Quietus]

I've never really had any problems relating to women, and find it odd that some men do. I always just treat them exactly the same as men: Show them respect, and don't try and act differently (or to impress, which is even worse), like they're a completely different species. I've generally found that they want the same things us men do, and that you can have perfectly normal conversations about life, love, and the universe.

It's similar to some men acting bizarrely when it comes to talking about things like pregnancy, periods, tampons, etc. It's all perfectly natural, so what's the big deal?

Maybe I'm just too super chilled about life..? :oh:

[Grimlock]

Thanks for the reply Quietus but it's not really about relating with woman or feeling comfortable talking about tampons :lol:, it's about understanding them.  For example "hypergamy", did they talk about that at any level of schooling you attended?  Probably not but I bet polygamy was discussed.  Hypergamy (Marrying up/trading up) is the female reproductive strategy were as polygamy (get lots of partners) is the male reproductive strategy.  This is neither "good" or "bad", we're just wired this way for the sake of survival in the natural world we evolved in.  The problems start to come up when we take hundreds of thousands of years of evolution from a lifestyle that essentially didn't change over the bulk of that time and place it in our now gynocentric modern society.  Men have it hammered into them starting at an early age to contain and keep in check their masculine and polygamous nature.  Most women on the other hand don't even know what hypergamy is, it's not even discussed and as a result it's completely socially acceptable.  Most women don't even understand that the root of their nagging, bitching, and complaining is caused by their hypergamous nature.  Since there's always an urge to "trade up" they constantly have a nagging feeling that their partner may "not be the one", they do what is called a "shit test" to test their man.  Some women are just never happy, simply because their hypergamous hard wiring makes them feel like they have a void inside that ultimately they can't fill completely.  Hypergamic urges unchecked often result in women cheating on her man even in a good relationship, they'll even drop a man in a seemingly average to decent marriage for a man with high enough social status above the one she's with (or other seemingly superior attribute if even short term).  Now I'm not trying to say all women will be unfaithful, I'm saying that just like men they certainly can be, but for different reasons.  Hypergamy can be vicious and cruel if unchecked and not understood.  Us guys can do a lot in our relationships if we understand it.  There's another issue though that makes hypergamy even worse, the "war bride dynamic".  Another preset hard wiring that us guys have stacked against us.  Basically women can let go of a partner and "fall out of love" much easier than a man can.  This is simple evolution again because women had to adapt when their tribes were conquered, all the men killed and most of the children.  They had to adapt to their new conquering tribe for their own survival.  Also men were seen as expendable throughout our history, men died doing all sorts of things including hunting.  So Women have subconscious urges to trade up while also having the ability to drop out of love much more easily than men do.  You can imagine how this can manifest itself in a pretty ugly way for a devoted long term boyfriend or husband.  Another point to bring up is the subject of "love" and how it's experienced by men and women.  I'll try not to get into to much detail but basically guys think women experience love the same way men do but this is false.  We're different on a biological level, also historically we have different interests in love relating to survival.  The book goes into greater detail on a lot of other topics.  It is raw and direct as I stated before, it's not written in a "PC" way so if anyone's sensitive in that regard then maybe pass on it or take in the information and overlook the blunt language as need be.

EDIT:  Here's an article that sums up hypergamy:  http://www.masculinedevelopment.com/female-hypergamy-advantage/

[Quietus]

It still strikes me a bit as though it's trying to pigeonhole everybody, and is acting like none of us have a choice, which is the single biggest thing that sets us apart from other animals. We can choose to go against our base nature.

Either that or I'm missing the point entirely, and I should just run round humping anything that moves, then feigning ignorance with a shrug and a 'sorry - it's my nature' excuse. :cool:

On another note, I'd lightheartedly add that if everybody followed this, then it'd be chaos. Sexy, grapsing, species ending chaos. :cheers:

[Grimlock]

If you're referring to what the website I linked is offering as advice it's just stating one possible use of "red pill" theory (dating scene).  You're right though, everyone is unique.  People both male and female are like onions and have multiple layers that make up who they are.  BUT, at the very most inner core levels, our basic hard wiring is fundamentally the same.  Not that woman and men are the same but men are the same as other men and women are the same as other women, with some subtle variations of course.  Anyway there's nothing to "follow" it's just information, you can use it as you see fit.  "Game" for example is one application of "red pill" theory.  But even that can be used responsibly.  A "nice guy" who is terrified with approaching women to ask them out could adapt by absorbing some "pick up artist" "game" with the intent not to use women but to just find a good girl for a healthy long term relationship.  So in the end it's all about intent.  A married man could use this information to find ways to keep the marriage more alive for his wife, since he understands her basic hypergamous nature and what she responds to on a very basic hardwired level.  It will also keep a man from getting "too comfortable" in a relationship which manifests itself as neglect and laziness.  Just knowing she has the ability to "fall out of love" much easier than him will motivate him to be a better husband.  So ultimately like a lot of information we're exposed to it's all about how we use it.  :cool: